We have all been taught to forgive others when they have wronged us. When asked how many times should we forgive, Jesus answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times," (Matthew 18:22). Also while Jesus was being crucified, He cried out for forgiveness for those who were killing Him (Luke 23:34). However, in the case where we are our worst critics, have you forgiven yourself for a lifetime of self-lies and self-critique? I was asked recently if I have showed my abuser compassion and forgiveness and I honestly had to think about it. For years I have a judged and talked down on myself and never have I really forgiven myself for the self-abuse.
When we continue to beat ourselves up, it makes it more difficult to believe the identity God intended us to have. An identity in God through the Lord Jesus Christ. We will continue to believe the lies we tell ourselves in the past and the ones to come in the future. Lets not give the devil this type of advantage. I urge all who read this to find some quiet time and forgive yourself. Once we repent to God, He forgives us but we have a hard time forgiving ourselves. Forgive yourself. Confess the times you have been hard on yourself to the Lord and ask Him to give you a heart of self-forgiveness. Do not judge yourself unrighteously. Do not be the one to keep you from growth in every area of your life.
